IF I WERE A MAN....
If I WERE A MAN, whether a classic gentleman with style...like Cary Grant....or just a regular guy who knew the value of time, well-spent.... I'd know how to make-love to a woman.
Too many men have never achieved the ultimate in love-making; never experienced a totally-satisfied woman.
Men like to think they know what a woman really wants, that women are consumed with everything"BIG"---including big cars, big-man-on-campus-macho...big muscles...big egos.. big money.....and, not to mention... a big weapon.
I've known and loved men all my life. I'd know how to please a woman if I were wearing men's pants.
First of all, outer appearance is important. Of course, very few man look like Cary Grant but, he didn't "wake up" gorgeous and confident and a pleaser of women. He developed his style, his look, over the years. He aged well because he knew how to maintain his looks. It isn't about money but about time and intent. It doesn't take an advanced degree to learn how to be lean, clean, classy, and nicely-dressed.
Just like men--- women want a partner with good hygiene; a man who takes care of himself, his teeth, his fingernails, and yes....his toenails, too. Women want what men want when it comes to a well-maintained body.
It helps too, if a man speaks well...knows how to talk rather than mumble....and doesn't begin each sentence with "well"...."you know"...."damn" ....or worse.
Both men and women have "ticks" or habits that drive others crazy so...do a check list. Ask yourself "Am I a man who-----picks his nose, picks his teeth, picks his ears,....picks, rubs, or pulls at body parts...or.....(heaven forbid) passes gas in public, or tells nasty jokes?!?!"
Every woman I know will agree when I say: Everything about love-making begins with a Kiss. And, in my opinion, it can be the beginning or the end to all love-making. If a man doesn't kiss well....nothing that follows, matters.
Attention, Men! A kiss doesn't start with your tongue. Kissing starts with your lips....sensitive lips that encourage a woman's lips to be sensitive and-- ready---for a playful tongue. But, Kissing can't be hurried...and a well-tuned man knows all about timing. Kissing is the "art of the deal"; the introduction to all the excitement ahead.
Never be in a hurry. Too-many-men are too-quick to start the party, too soon. "Priming the Pump" takes time, and attention-to-detail, and smart men know exactly what I mean. With every breath and every move--think "Romance" .
Okay, it's almost time to get to the "heart" of my blog. I've divided my blog into two segments. One is appearing today and the other will be featured tomorrow. I know about this subject and have too-much to share for a "one-day-only" post.
In My Opinion....the best is yet to come. We'll continue tomorrow!