IF I WERE A MAN...
If I WERE A MAN like Cary Grant... a classic gentleman with style... or just a regular guy who knows the value of time well-spent, I'd make sure I was "the best" at making love to a woman.
Too many men have never delivered the ultimate in love-making; never experienced a totally-satisfied woman.
Men like to think they know what a woman wants, that women are consumed with everything"BIG"---including big cars, big-man-on-campus-macho...big muscles...big egos.. big money.....and not to mention... big weapons.
I've known and loved men all my life. Trust me, If I were wearing men's underwear/men's pants..I'd know how to please a woman....and "BIG" wouldn't be a factor.
First of all, outer appearance is extremely important. Few man look like Cary Grant but, he didn't "wake up" gorgeous and confident and a pleaser of women. Reading about Cary, I learned it took years for him to perfect his style, his look. He aged well because he knew how to maintain his looks. Being confident and smooth isn't about money but about time and intent. A man doesn't need an advanced degree to learn how to be lean, clean, classy, and well-dressed.
Just like men--- women want a partner with good hygiene; a man who takes care of himself, his teeth, his fingernails, and yes....his toenails, too. Women want what men want when it comes to a defined and well-maintained body.
It helps too, if a man speaks well...knows how to talk rather than mumble....and doesn't begin each sentence with "well"...."uh"..."you know"...."damn" or....worse.
Both men and women have "ticks" and "habits" that drive others crazy so...do a quick-check list. Ask yourself "Am I a man who-----picks his nose, picks his teeth, picks his ears,....picks, rubs, or pulls at body parts...or.....(heaven forbid) passes gas in public or enjoys telling nasty/vulgar jokes?!?!"
And, I believe every woman will agree when I say: The best of love-making begins with a Kiss. And, in my opinion, the Kiss will either introduce The Beginning of exciting lovemaking or... The End. If a man doesn't kiss well--nothing that follows really matters.
Attention, Men! A kiss doesn't start with your tongue. Kissing starts with your lips....sensitive lips that encourage a woman's lips to be sensitive and welcoming to a playful tongue. Kissing can never be hurried. A sensitive and well-tuned man will know all about timing. Remember---Kissing is the "art of the deal"; the introduction to future excitement.
And, never-ever be in a hurry. Too-many-men are too-quick to start the party--too soon. "Priming the Pump" takes time, and attention-to-detail. Smart men know exactly what I mean.
And, with every breath, every move, keep thinking "Romance".