Oct. 31, 2022

ONLY A FEW CAN BE A SUPER-MODEL BUT--EVERYONE CAN BE A ROLE-MODEL.

CARMEN IS 5 FT, 11 INCHES TALL, HAS BEEN MARRIED THREE TIMES, AND HAS ONE DAUGHTER. SHE WAS "DISCOVERED" BY A PHOTOGRAPHER'S WIFE WHEN SHE WAS A TEENAGER-- RIDING A CITY BUS.  YOU MIGHT SAY---SHE RECEIVED "ON THE JOB" TRAINING.  HER FIRST ASSIGNMENT WAS EVERY MODEL'S DREAM JOB----WHEN SHE APPEARED ON THE FRONT COVER OF VOGUE MAGAZINE--AT THE AGE OF FIFTEEN.

I RECALL SHARING HER STORY WHEN I WAS SPEAKING TO A GROUP OF YOUNG BUSINESS WOMEN IN PHILADELPHIA AND WAS SURPRISED WHEN ONE YOUNG WOMAN SPOKE UP AND SAID: "WHO CARES ABOUT SOME OLD WOMAN WHO DOES NOTHING BUT WEAR EXPENSIVE CLOTHES, LOTS OF MAKEUP, AND TAKE ORDERS FROM A BUNCH OF MALE PHOTOGRAPHERS?!?!?!?  I KNEW, IMMMEDIATELY, THIS YOUNG WOMAN WAS A HABITUAL-HATER AND DESTINED TO BE MISERABLE ALL HER LIFE. HOW DID I KNOW THEN--AS WELL AS NOW?!?!?

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I KNOW-- FROM EXPERIENCE. EVERY WOMAN'S WORST CRITICS ARE ALMOST-ALWAYS---OTHER WOMEN.  WHO KNOWS WHY THERE IS A NASTY TENDENCY FOR TOO-MANY WOMEN TO BE JEALOUS OF OTHER WOMEN---ESPECIALLY-WHEN THOSE OTHER WOMEN ARE --- PRETTY, STYLISH, SMART, TALENTED--  AND-- ALSO POISED, POLISHED, AND POPULAR.

AFTER FEELING THE UGLINESS OF OTHER WOMEN'S HATEFULNESS, JEALOUSY,  AND BITCHINESS THROUGHOUT MY LIFETIME, I WALK AWAY FROM SUCH "SMALL-TIME" WOMEN TODAY. THE MINUTE I SENSE THEIR ENVY AND HATEFULNESS, I CANCEL THEIR PRESENCE FROM MY LIFE.  SUCH WOMEN ARE HOPELESS; THEY NEVER CHANGE.

THEY HATE EVERY WOMAN WHO IS MORE ATTRACTIVE, MORE TALENTED, AND MORE POPULAR THAN THEY ENVISION THEMSELVES.  THESE INSECURE WOMEN ARE ONLY HAPPY WHEN THEY CAN  VICIOUSLY-HATE  EVERY PRETTY, SUCCESSFUL, AND CONFIDENT WOMAN AROUND THEM  AND GOSSIP ABOUT THEM TO OTHERS.

JEALOUS WOMEN ARE MISERABLY-PATHETIC WOMEN WHO NEVER REACH THEIR FULL POTENTIAL.  WHY?  BECAUSE THEY'RE TOO-BUSY HATING AND TRYING TO "TEAR-DOWN"  ATTRACTIVE WOMEN AROUND THEM. 

THE WORLD NEEDS POSITIVE ROLE MODELS.  I KNOW BECAUSE I USED ATTRACTIVE , ELEGANT, AND SUCCESSFUL WOMEN AS MY ROLE MODELS---FROM CHILDHOOD TO TODAY. EVERY THING I FIND APPEALING IN OTHER WOMEN---FROM HAIR STYLES, MAKEUP, POSTURE, GRACIOUSNESS, FASHIONABLE ATTIRE AND OVERALL-ELEGANCE---I INCORPORATE INTO MY OWN LOOK, STYLE, AND PUBLIC  PRESENTATIONS.

 I'M STILL EXCLUSIVELY-ME  BUT---I CHOOSE TO HIGHLIGHT AND POLISH "ME" BY ADOPTING WHAT WORKS, SUCCESSFULLY, FOR OTHERS. BY SO DOING---I'M OPENING-MYSELF-UP TO SERVE AS A ROLE MODEL...AND THE CYCLE CONTINUES.....

BEING A ROLE MODEL TO OTHER WOMEN IS, INDEED, A COMPLIMENT. WE ALL LIKE TO BE ADMIRED FOR OUR LOOKS, OUR ACTIONS, AND OUR SERVICE TO OTHERS.

PLEASE STAY CLOSE,

SALLY